Naina.co
  • Blog
    • Everything
    • Only Articles & Writing
    • #NAINAxStyle
    • Podcast : The Naina Redhu Experience
    • EyesFor…
      • #EyesForLuxury
      • #EyesForLifestyle
      • #EyesForDestinations
        • #EyesForIndia
        • #EyesForDubai
        • #EyesForEurope
        • #EyesForLA
        • #EyesForLondon
        • #EyesForNewYork
      • #EyesForPeople
      • #EyesForStreetStyle
      • #EyesForDining
      • #EyesForTechnology
      • #EyesForFashion
        • New York Fashion Week
        • Amazon India Fashion Week AW15
      • #EyesForBeauty
      • #EyesForPeople
    • Art
    • #MadeInIndia
    • #NAINAxADOBE
    • #NosedByNaina
  • Photography Portfolio
  • Contact & About
  • Press
  • Clients
  • Newsletter

NAINA.CO

Instagram
Twitter
YouTube
Pinterest
LinkedIn
Spotify
Facebook
online brand building, photography & art
Naina.co
  • Blog
    • Everything
    • Only Articles & Writing
    • #NAINAxStyle
    • Podcast : The Naina Redhu Experience
    • EyesFor…
      • #EyesForLuxury
      • #EyesForLifestyle
      • #EyesForDestinations
        • #EyesForIndia
        • #EyesForDubai
        • #EyesForEurope
        • #EyesForLA
        • #EyesForLondon
        • #EyesForNewYork
      • #EyesForPeople
      • #EyesForStreetStyle
      • #EyesForDining
      • #EyesForTechnology
      • #EyesForFashion
        • New York Fashion Week
        • Amazon India Fashion Week AW15
      • #EyesForBeauty
      • #EyesForPeople
    • Art
    • #MadeInIndia
    • #NAINAxADOBE
    • #NosedByNaina
  • Photography Portfolio
  • Contact & About
  • Press
  • Clients
  • Newsletter
0
  • Articles & Writing

The Great Indian Census

  • July 14, 2013
  • naina
The-Great-Or-Not-Indian-Census-Everyday-Sexism-Naina.co-Luxury-Lifestyle-Photographer-Brand-Storyteller-Raconteuse

The-Great-Or-Not-Indian-Census-Everyday-Sexism-Naina.co-Luxury-Lifestyle-Photographer-Brand-Storyteller-Raconteuse-Header

Sundays are traditionally meant to be used for lazing. They are supposed to somehow legitimize the society’s need to make its workers aka citizens feel that killing themselves on the weekdays is OK as long as the Sunday is spent in lumbering stupor on a couch in front of the television.

We do have hardworking people who go out even on Sunday [ maybe because it means that extra income to support their families ]. Case in point, the boy and woman who knocked at my door on Sunday afternoon 1300hrs.

I asked them who they were with raised eyebrows, implying that they were not welcome. I was told “India Census”. Well alright – go on I grumbled, standing there in the doorway [ which was open just a crack to further let them know they weren’t welcome ].

They asked, “Aapkey ghar ke mukhiya ka naam bataaien.” [ Translation from Hindi : Who is the “head” of the household? ]

The thoughts and questions and one-liners in my head at that point were making my skull burst at the seams. I forced myself to stay composed and said, “What does that mean? How do you define a “mukhiya” / “head of the household”?

I was told it was the person in the house who is the oldest – in years / age.

My husband and I live together and there are no other “members of the household” AND my husband happens to be a year younger than I am. Expecting to be entertainment-of-the-day for the Census boy and woman, I told them as much. “I am the “mukhiya” / “head of household” in that case.” The woman giggled and said “But no father / husband?” I wanted to slap her at that point [ thankfully my saying this more a figure of speech than actual action ].

I told her my father didn’t live with me and my husband was a year younger. She giggled some more. I continued to stare instead of offering any more explanations. With raised eyebrows. The boy with the woman looked nonplussed – no smile / giggle either.

They proceeded to inform me, “But since he is husband, he is “mukhiya” / “head of household”.

I asked them how that was – since their definition was related to age and I was older. I was told it was also on the basis of who is the earning member and who earns more. Aha! I thought. I finally have something to disrupt their Census. “I earn more than my husband. Now are you going to write my name or what?”

The woman at this point had stopped giggling but smiled shyly and said, “Koi baat nahi, abhi nahin kamaatey toh kabhi toh kamaayengey.” [ Translation : No matter, if he doesn’t earn now, he will earn at some point. ]

The boy meanwhile looked at me and said, “Chaliye, apna naam bataaiye.” and got ready to write to down on the Census form. [ Translation : Ok, tell me your name. ]

I told them my name, they wrote it down, the women giggled a little more and they left. The shortest Census questionnaire ever. I’m not sure how it works but it felt like the the brief was “If it’s a woman, don’t do anything. Walk away.”

It took all my willpower to not slam the door behind them.

Men and women BOTH suffer from patriarchy. Tragic. And it take a lot of work to get out of the rut and see these things for what they are. Unfair to both the genders.

Total
0
Shares
Share
Tweet
Pin it
Share
Share
Share
Share
Share
Share
Related Topics
  • bias
  • brand specialist
  • branding
  • designer
  • feminism
  • gender
  • indian census
  • life
  • lifestyle photographer
  • living
  • luxury photographer
  • naina.co
  • patriarchy
  • photo stories
  • questionnaire
  • sexism
  • story-teller
  • sunday
naina

Previous Article
Swarovski Tropical Crystal Jewellery Akanksha Redhu Fashion Style Blogger Santu Misra Lifestyle Luxury Photographer Story Teller Naina.co Raconteuse
  • Naina In The News

Swarovski Photo-Feature

  • June 29, 2013
  • naina
View Post
Next Article
Rotten-Fruit-Portrait-Fine-Art-Luxury-Lifestyle-Photographer-Naina.co-Raconteuse
  • #KhaosPhilos
  • Photo Prints

Portrait #RottenFruit

  • July 17, 2013
  • naina
View Post
You May Also Like
View Post
  • Articles & Writing

I Am Not Afraid of Being Alone

  • naina
  • January 9, 2021
the bridges of madison county, book, robert kincaid, francesca johnson, robert james waller, romance novel, novella, favourite romance novel, naina redhu, naina.co, love story
View Post
  • #EyesForLifestyle
  • Articles & Writing

The Bridges Of Madison County : My Favourite Romance Novel Ever

  • naina
  • October 21, 2020
View Post
  • Articles & Writing

Be Strong.

  • naina
  • August 28, 2020
View Post
  • Articles & Writing
  • Personal Photography Showcase

Hello 40! #40and10in2020

  • naina
  • June 26, 2020
JRE potify, the joe rogan experience, spotify, spotify podcast, podcasts on spotify, the naina redhu experience, comedian, UFC commentator, influencer marketing podcast, brand building podcast, online brand building, social media marketing, youtube podcasts, spotify vodcast, podcast industry, podcasting
View Post
  • Articles & Writing

The Joe Rogan Experience Podcast Moves to Spotify : What Does That Mean?

  • naina
  • May 20, 2020
View Post
  • Articles & Writing

Listening In On A Webinar : Influencer Marketing Post The Pandemic

  • naina
  • May 8, 2020
View Post
  • Articles & Writing

How To Take Feedback From Strangers On The Internet

  • naina
  • April 24, 2020
View Post
  • Articles & Writing

Gratitude In Times of Uncertainty

  • naina
  • April 22, 2020
2 comments
  1. PeeCee says:
    July 14, 2013 at 6:25 pm

    Thank you, for sharing this. This just goes on to highlight the vast gap between those evolved by education and the ones who are still in the stages of evolution even though they are educated.

  2. asit says:
    November 9, 2013 at 12:55 pm

    hail the mukhiyani ji :))

Comments are closed.





Naina Redhu is a professional photographer & visual artist.

Her career, spanning 16 years, started with an MBA in IT & Systems, to a job as an Innovation Management Consultant, to branding & graphic design work for international clients, to a full-time solo-entrepreneurship as an Experience Collector.

Naina started her blog 16 years ago and it has evolved from writing about Creativity & Innovation, to sharing case studies about Branding & Graphic Design to finally a destination for some of the leading Luxury & Lifestyle brands as Naina writes features for these brands and photographs them.

Having traveled all over India as a child ( the advantage of having a father serving in the Indian Army ), she is also well-traveled across Europe ( Austria, Switzerland, Netherlands, Italy and France ), Asia ( Bhutan, Sri Lanka, Thailand, and Vietnam ), America ( New York, Los Angeles and San Francisco ), and Canada.

Naina has her own podcast called The Naina Redhu Experience, where she talks about the business and professional aspects of photography, blogging and influencer marketing in India.

Her abstract art, under the KhaosPhilos label can be shopped on the Naina.co online store and she is available for bespoke commissions as well.

"The New Rules of Online Brand Building", Naina's on-ground workshop, recently wrapped up its 7th Edition. Launched in 2018, "Workshops By Naina" is going to be seeing more editions across the country & online.

Naina is also available for hire as a Speaker. She has been invited as a Keynote Speaker at a blogging conference and also speaks about the business of photography in India.

Always learning & evolving online, she has presence across several online spaces including Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, Pinterest, LinkedIn, TikTok and her podcast can be found on all podcast channels and apps.

#EyesForLuxury
  • janavi india, jyotika jhalani, naina redhu, LMIFWSS21, FDCI, Shaurya Athley, aprajita puri, janavi love, fdci goes digital, talisman, handcrafted, made in india, cashmere, shawls, luxury cashmere, eyesforluxury, madeininda, cashmere, kiera chaplin, spectaculars, eyeforfashion, fashion week, india fashion week, lotus india fashion week 2020, fdci fashion week 2020
    Talisman by Janavi India #LMIFWSS21 : Evil Eye Luxury Cashmere Collection
    • October 18, 2020
  • midsummer jardin, hand-painted jacket, impressionist, pointillism, impressionism, post-impressionism, contemporary art, khaosphilos, wearable art, wear a painting, wear art, made in india, make in india, madeinindia, makeinindia, wearableart, wearart, wearapainting, khaos philos, naina redhu, naina.co, naina, indian artist, art on garments, painted jacket, painted blazer, flower garden, midsummer garden, artist's garden, monet, seurat
    Midsummer Jardin : More About My First Hand-Painted Jacket #KhaosPhilos
    • May 31, 2020
  • bmw, eyesforluxury, automobiles, automobile brand, bayerische motoren werke ag, german company, german automobile, bmw 8 series gran coupe, the8, luxury grand tourer, four door, thegentlemanconnoisseur, nainaxbmw, india art fair, bmw at the india art fair, bmwatiaf, indiaartfair2020, new delhi, lifestyle photographer, luxury photographer, car, automobile photographer, art photographer, art fair, naina redhu, naina, naina.co
    BMW at the India Art Fair 2020 #EyesForLuxury #BMWAtIAF
    • February 22, 2020
#KhaosPhilos Art Label
  • The “NUANCE” Wearable Art Series of Brooches Made From Hand-Cut Paint
    • November 26, 2020
  • The Hindu Weekend, Susanna Myrtle, LuxeList, Luxe List, Hand Painted Brooches, Wearable Art, Made In India, Naina Redhu, Naina.co, KhaosPhilos, Chaos Lover, Independent Artist, Brooches Are Back, Accessories, Luxury Accessories, One Of A Kind, Unique Accessories, Hand Made, In Time, Diwali Brooch Collection
    One-Of-A-Kind Wearable Art Brooches by KhaosPhilos In The Press : The Hindu Weekend
    • October 16, 2020
  • face masks, hand-painted mask, Made In India, KhaosPhilos, Naina Redhu, Naina.co, Independent Artist Masks, India Art Mask, Art Mask India, Mand World Magazine, Press, Magandeep Singh
    KhaosPhilos Hand-Painted Art Masks In The Press : MansWorld India, September 2020
    • October 16, 2020
Social Links
Products In The Shop
  • Brooches (89)
    • 2 Inches Diameter (37)
    • 2.5 Inches (35)
    • 3 Inches Diameter (15)
    • Oil (1)
    • Sculptural (47)
  • Collections (108)
    • ALIVE (6)
    • Benches (5)
    • DOTS (17)
    • HORIZONS (21)
    • IN TIME (16)
    • METALS (20)
    • NUANCE (8)
    • Paper 2018 (20)
  • Garments (14)
    • Caps (2)
    • Masks (11)
  • Large Paintings (34)
    • On Canvas (14)
    • On Paper (20)
  • Prints (27)
    • Paintings (20)
    • Photographs (6)
    • Posters (1)
  • SOLD (52)
  • Uncategorized (3)
  • Workshops (3)
Your Cart
#EyesForDestinations
  • narendra bhawan bikaner, narendra bhawan, eyesforrajasthan, eyesfordestinations, bikaner, rajasthan, travel photogapher, nainaxnarendrabhawan, best boutique hotel in india, indian boutique hotel, narendra bhawan india, narendra singh, naina redhu, naina, lifestyle photographer, travel blogger
    The Nine Stages of Experiencing Narendra Bhawan Bikaner
    • December 17, 2020
  • bhairon vilas, bikaner, hotel bhairon vilas, dive bar bikaner, dive bar, narendra bhawan bikaner, rajasthan, eyesfordestinations, eyesforrajasthan, rajasthan photographs, travel photographer, bikaner photographs, bikaner bar
    The Dive Bar at Bhairon Vilas, Bikaner
    • December 9, 2020
  • The Way We Were, Dream A Little Dream, Head Up In The Clouds, Feet On The Ground, Be Elevated, Binsar, Binsar Wildlife Reserve, Mary Budden Estate, Himalayas, Uttrakhand Diaries, In The Woods, Tap Your Primordial, A Forest Dream, Seek The Wilderness, Climb Your Mountain, Forests Are Storytellers, Seek Your Wilderness, Into A Mountain, Find Your Story, Remote Life, Remote Expeditions, Remote Places, Remote Travel, Uttrakhand Tourism, Eyes For Destinations, Find Your Wonderland, Disconnect To Connect, Indian Photographer, Travel Photographer India, Hospitality Photographer India, Luxury, Lifestyle, Blogger, Naina Redhu, Naina.co, Naina
    Dream A Little Dream At The Mary Budden Estate, Binsar, Uttarakhand.
    • October 6, 2020
ART SHOP
  • 2020 #Alive ₹6,000.00
  • Vital #Alive ₹6,000.00
  • Flourishing #Alive ₹6,000.00
  • Vigorous #Alive ₹7,000.00
  • Extant #Alive ₹7,000.00
  • Spry #Alive ₹8,000.00

All Copyright rests with Naina Redhu. All Rights Reserved 2020. Written permission is required for you to copy & use images or text from this website. Email n@naina.co to ask.

NAINA.CO
  • Blog
  • Photography Portfolio
  • Contact & About
  • Press
  • Clients
  • Newsletter
All Rights Reserved. Copyright Naina.co 2020.

Input your search keywords and press Enter.